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Four

26 March 2010

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When I was a kid growing up in Sonoma County I had neighborhood friends — lucky me, they were girls near my own age — I’d meet up with for dog-playing and creek-exploring and all else. I can’t remember if we used to call each other; we were so young then so maybe we just met up on the street, a sort of desultory let’s hang out and roam about in our respective backyards kind of a thing. One in particular I had such fun with because at her house they had ducks (!) and chickens, too, I sometimes took care of when they went out of town. We’d go blackberry picking in season, not anywhere in particular but just ‘around’. We’d take them back to her house and douse them with cream and sugar — did we rinse them off first? I hope so but the memory eludes; if not surely they were dusty and a bit disheveled, much like glorious summer itself — and eat in the cool dimness of her parents’ kitchen, swinging our legs under the wood table and trying not to kick the dog.

Last summer I went to the blackberry bush at the edge of my parents’ field and sifted through the berries for the best ones. I made crumbles and sorbet and it was familiar and right. I felt like things had come full circle somehow, though my old friends had long since moved away. What remained was the dry grass under my feet, the sun, the blackberries, that feeling of peace.

When I didn’t live in California — all almost-nine-years — I missed it fiercely. There’s something about this place and if you’re born here it’s hard to leave. If you do leave you most often pine for it; I met many displaced Californians at East Coast parties who felt the same. Invariably we’d end up on someone’s porch clutching our bottles of beer and talking about Pt. Reyes, I mean, that is my place; you know, Wildcat for camping even though the campground isn’t the best but it’s so close to the beach and when the sun sets on a clear night… god! or It’s so different here not that I mind exactly but it’s not California and just can’t ever be

or There are no real mountains around here and I try to go home in the winter so I can go skiing in Tahoe because, I mean, it’s Tahoe right? We’d chuckle fondly about San Francisco and its intensely liberal atmosphere — though, to be honest, it was tinged with the wistful as we swatted at mosquitoes; the nation’s capital, in summer, being not a place for the heat-averse –, about that time the Giants lost the World Series (eternal tragedy), and how the air just feels better out West. For awhile I had an old friend from home who lived in Maryland and we’d meet up every so often for happy hour, mostly to moon over West Marin.

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[Near Calistoga, March 2010.]

When I didn’t live here I came back as often as possible. Sometimes my brother was there, too, and we’d go backpacking in Yosemite or to Point Reyes or just took the dog to Goat Rock back when you could still take dogs. Sometimes my dad and I went kayaking on Tomales Bay, to sit in the sun afterward on the dock of that little place right near the kayak rental and drink root beer. One August it was so hot I wore all my DC clothes and swam in the Russian River and didn’t miss the Atlantic Ocean one bit. The next day we went out on the bay on a blazing morning and saw, incredibly, a whale that had drifted in with her calf (I still swam off the sandbar later, even though I was a little bit nervous). Then I started coming for stolen days here and there in spring, too, to run along the backroads and see the hills green for once. Every single time I left it felt not-right; my heart ached and even though I had a good life back East there was always something missing.

I think what it was was a feeling of place — my place. The ocean-place. A blackberry-place. Home. Now, I do not take for granted I know where that is; I know I’m lucky. I also do not regret the time I spent on the other coast, for I met so many wonderful, true friends and learned a lot and had a good, full life. Anyway — if I’d never left California perhaps I would never have come to appreciate it quite so very much; sometimes to discover where home is you have to leave it. The other side of this is, of course, if you come back you might have to rediscover it — and yourself — all over again.

Four years ago this month I moved to San Francisco and when I think about it the time has slipped by both in a flash and very slowly. It certainly doesn’t feel like less than four years. My life now is so different than what it was when I lived in Washington, not least of all because I tramp up and down steep streets every day, and every so very often — namely: July — I find myself wishing for just one week of heat and humidity and an ocean safe for swimming in. But these are small trade-offs. What I miss most is my little community of friends (for a time we all lived within walking distance of each other and the impromptu barbecues and coffees and chats and meet-ups …) and wearing lighter clothes in the summer and my brother living close enough to see regularly. But that is why there are plane tickets I suppose.

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[Pacific Ocean from Bodega Head, December 2009.]

California has given me so much — those blackberries, good coffee (my god, the coffee! I never cared so much until I moved here and lest you think I’m being awfully pretentious I will hasten to add that it’s just that I didn’t know how good a good cup of coffee can be, and thus learned to truly love it for the first time), the picking wild berries for dessert at dusk in the woods, a throwback to that childhood memory, going to my old house in Sebastopol whenever I feel like it, inspiration to write I never quite could hold on to before, being able to go down to the ocean without flying across the country or driving four hours. Among other things, I always ached for that lack of water.

The sea is everywhere in this city. I love the mountains, too (do I!), but my heart belongs to the ocean. You forget sometimes how close it is: the Financial District is brick-red and full of narrow alleyways and miles from the beach. But then the wind picks up and brings with it the smell of salt and brine and you know. You trot down to the Ferry Building for good bread and cheese (and sometimes cupcakes) and watch the ferries sailing serenely off to Marin or the East Bay — water, everywhere, blue and grey. That has been perhaps San Francisco’s greatest gift to me: to be close to water.

The first days living in San Francisco are a blur: I didn’t know the city well, and was sorting out Muni and where exactly was the Main Library and and and. A little bit I missed DC — at least, that familiarity — though not enough to move back. My apartment was beautiful but temporary (a sublet for a few months), and I was ready to settle in somewhere and start the next part of my life. It was an in between time, which is always a bit hard, and so to ease myself along I cooked — I cooked a lot, and I cooked a lot of things I’d cooked when I lived in Washington: tofu baked in peanut sauce served with piles of wild rice, spinach stirred in at the end; asparagus-mushroom-white bean stirfries with brown rice; roasted red potatoes; vegan chocolate cakes. It helped to bridge the gap.

This is a soup I made a lot in those early days; it’s spring, and simple, and just right for now. The main farmers’ market I frequented back then was down at the Civic Center, and I remember for some reason there was always an abundance of broccoli mixed in among all the weird greens I’d never seen in my old life. I’d buy great bunches, take them home, put them in a pot with a few potatoes and vegetable broth, and that was dinner. It comforted in those heady, strange days when I was figuring out how to live in a new place — thrilled and terrified both. And I make it now, to remember.

This city — this shining, white-gold, blue city: mine in a way DC never was. You never know where life may take you and indeed I may not live here forever but for now, and for the last four years, it is good to be home.

And mixed with these were splashes of California poppies. These too are of a burning color- not orange, not gold, but if pure gold were liquid and could raise a cream, that golden cream might be like the color of the poppies. ~ John Steinbeck, “East of Eden”

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Broccoli Soup

1 clove garlic, sliced
1 onion, diced
1 carrot, peeled and diced
2 russet potatoes, peeled and sliced thinly
2 cups vegetable broth
4 large bunches broccoli

Sautee the onion and garlic in a little olive oil in a large soup pot (I used my big blue). After about five minutes — or until they’re soft — add the carrot and cook a few more minutes. Add the potatoes and the stock and simmer for about 10 minutes until potatoes begin to soften. Add broccoli and about 3 cups of water; salt and pepper to taste.

Bring to a boil, then cover and reduce to a simmer until both broccoli and potatoes are soft and broken up. Remove from heat, add a teaspoon of dried herbs such as basil or herbs du provence, then puree in a food processor or with a stick blender until smooth.

Reheat gently, and serve hot.

  • Chef Chuck 20 April 2010 at 12:30 pm

    Very nice Blog, your foods photos, etc.
    Thanks for sharing in such an elegant way!

  • Janae S. 1 April 2010 at 7:55 pm

    Really nice read, thank you. I’m a Southern California native (and living there now), and I only wish I could feel about this place the way you do about Northern California. I somewhere else once and always wished I could have stayed. I have such homesickness for a place that was never mine to begin with. Isn’t that sad? But that’s okay. Come to think of it, I don’t think I’ve ever had what I would describe as really ‘good’ coffee, either. I will have to find a way to fix that.

    Isn’t it funny how a post so completely personal to you, the writer, can bring about such questioning and inner turmoil in someone else?

    And as usual, you picked a quote that made me gasp for air–such palpable beauty. Love it!

  • denise (chez danisse) 31 March 2010 at 4:31 pm

    This was such a pleasure to read. So thought provoking. Sometimes I think I’m still figuring out how to live here. I love so much about San Francisco, but I was not born here. My parents no longer live in my childhood home, or in Chicago, or together. For now, this little apartment I share with my husband, its proximity to the ocean, the rows and rows of beautiful produce nearby, the crisp summer nights, it is home.

  • Alisa-Foodista 31 March 2010 at 6:48 am

    A beautiful post, makes me long for home

  • lillie 29 March 2010 at 4:40 pm

    Beautiful post again, Nicole. As an East Coast transplant now living in SF, I always have mixed feelings about thoughts of “home.” But here, for now, in this city, this is where it’s at. (And oh no, there is nothing quite like a San Francisco cup of coffee. Mmmm.)

  • randy 27 March 2010 at 9:32 pm

    Lovely post Nicole.

  • helen 27 March 2010 at 7:17 pm

    Beautifully written ode to California with brilliant photos to accompany the piece. As usual you are “spot on” with your literary quote to capture the essence of the writing. California missed you too, but remained steadfast and shining awaiting your return. Keep up the lovely writing!

  • helen 27 March 2010 at 11:23 am

    A beautiful post, as usual, with brilliant photos depicting California as it really is. Once again, you have given us the perfect quote to reflect the message you convey. Welcome back to CA.. We missed you while you were away, but stayed splendid and intact for your return. Keep up the descriptive and spot on writing!

  • LesleyG 27 March 2010 at 7:52 am

    Just beautiful. And isn’t it funny how we never really leave? I feel the very same about Colorado. No matter where I go, I know me and Colorado were MFEO. (ha)